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What is Abuse?

 
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Sometimes it is difficult to know when you are being abused. Abuse is any behavior that is used to intimidate or control you. The following are examples of abusive behavior.

Has your partner:

  • hit, slapped, punched, shoved or kicked you?
  • threatened to hurt you or your friends?
  • consistently ridiculed or insulted you?
  • become extremely jealous if you talked to other people or went out without him/her?
  • made you account for time you are away from him/her?
  • forced you to touch him/her or have sex with him/her?
  • accused you of dating other people behind his/her back?
  • threatened to hurt you or him/herself if you break up with them?
  • used being drunk or high as an excuse for his/her violent behavior?
  • blamed you for provoking his/her violent behavior?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be experiencing abuse. Remember that you are not alone! Contact us at the Department of Sexual Assault Services and Crime Victim Assistance for help or for more information.

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