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Terms of Abuse

 
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DATING VIOLENCE: A pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors or actions whereby one dating partner seeks control over the other.

VERBAL and EMOTIONAL ABUSE: The systematic attempt to destroy a person's sense of worth or self-esteem.

Behaviors include: name calling, jealous behavior, restricting a partner's social life or scaring away friends and family, humiliating a partner in private or in public, threatening suicide or other forms of self-harm, use of physical size to intimidate or threatening to physically hurt the partner.

SEXUAL ABUSE: Any sexual activity forced upon a person without his/her consent.

Behaviors include: degrading treatment based on the partner?s gender, criticizing a partner sexually, forced sexual contact, exposing oneself or forced sexual intercourse.

PHYSICAL ABUSE: Any act or behavior that inflicts or intends to inflict bodily harm.

Behaviors include: hitting, punching, slapping, biting, kicking choking, grabbing, pushing or destroying the partner?s possessions (e.g. furniture).

ECONOMIC ABUSE: Any act or behavior that demeans a person by controlling the use and availability of his/her money.

Behaviors include: expectation of sexual acts in return for paying expenses such as rent or tuition, interfering with the partner?s work or not letting the partner work, taking the partner?s money, taking the partner?s car keys or otherwise preventing the partner from getting to work.

STALKING: Purposely and repeatedly following or harassing another person, or making a credible threat that is intended to annoy or cause emotional distress, or causes someone to fear physical injury or death.

Behaviors include: following someone around, repeated phone calls and emails.

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